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Showing posts with label Mowing. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Mowing. Show all posts

Wednesday, June 08, 2011

How a Mommy Mows - Finding Balance After Baby


I had had enough one day. I sat looking at the TALL grass outside my door, wondering when in the world my hard working husband was going to be able to mow it, and if I could wait that long. I put the big kids in the pool, put the baby in my maya wrap, and pulled out the push mower.


I mowed first one patch with my baby in his sling. I had to have somewhere to place him. He really enjoyed hanging out on me and watching me work. He would put his hand on the handle bar at times and smile at me. My mother wasn't happy I wore him while I mowed. But it had to be done. The kids would never see a snake in the grass it was so tall. I did what a mommy had to do. I put that baby on me and did what mothers the world over used to do before they had anything but their arms and a bit of cloth or leather, I wore him and worked.


Once that big patch was done I laid a blanket out for him and piled the toys on. He really enjoyed it and stayed put. I don't think he would stay there now...weeks later. For that day, it worked. Hee hee...


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I have struggled with striking a balance in my home since Noah was growing inside of me. That day I felt I had won the battle. :) I accomplished something that needed to be done and I did it without my husband home. I also did it without the help of the big boys.


Have you ever felt that way when you cleverly found a way to get something done with a baby?




Thursday, April 14, 2011

Who Knew Yard Work Could Be So Sweet?


The men and I decided to get out in the front yard and clean up a bit. We didn't finish it, but we have learned that with Noah we just need to get out there and do what we can. Sometimes he surprises us with how long he enjoys an activity. Other times he is done right away. You know how it is. The baby sets the pace of the activity.


While Elijah mowed for a little bit I watched my sweet Baby Bleu. :)


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The Monkey hung and swung from Mrs. Appletree.


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The front yard started to look so nice. :) I love my big boy helper. Elijah really has become a young man of late. He helps me do so much. Just last year I still thought him my baby. Now he can push the mower and do such grownup things. Remy still runs around collecting bugs. Elijah helps me. When did it happen? When did he become one who senses responsibility beyond play? *sniff sniff*


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After Eli got to the point of the yard where he thought he may pass out I took over and we almost finished. I even pruned Mrs. Appletree. While that went on Remy was the babysitter. I gave Mrs. Appletree a cut and trim, Eli hung out in the tree holding ladybug larvae, and Remy introduced Noah to the joy of a dandelion puff.


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How was I so blessed with such wonderful young men to spend my days with? My heart aches it feels so full.